It may feel when going through the process of divorce, that there’s no such thing as a good divorce. However, the term has become more popular due to the ‘Good Divorce Week’, an initiative run by Resolution, who highlight constructive ways to resolve issues, whilst taking the strain away from family courts. A good divorce often means avoiding the need to go to court all together, and family law solicitors will be able to help you reach the best possible outcome for you and your family.
Family courts
Since the covid-19 pandemic, family courts across the country have been under strain with a considerable backlog of cases. This can mean that divorce proceedings take even longer to resolve. Family solicitors will always aim to mediate and find amicable solutions to divorce proceedings, to avoid you having to go through the courts to obtain your divorce. Our expert family solicitors recommend the following ways to work towards an amicable divorce:
Mediation
Family solicitors will always try to avoid conflict during divorce proceedings through working collaboratively to find an outcome all parties are happy with. Sometimes it isn’t possible for the two parties involved to do this alone, and the help of a trained professional can aid conversations and make dialogue more constructive. The third party, importantly, won’t take sides with either party but can help ensure every family member is able to have their say. Whether the conversations are of a financial nature, or you’d like to resolve issues around property or children, mediation has often proved a helpful way to avoid lengthy court proceedings.
You can speak to your family law solicitor about mediation and how this might help your circumstances.
Communication
As difficult as it may be, keeping open communication between you and your ex-partner is crucial to a ‘good divorce’. The best way to reach a quick and straightforward settlement is to be honest, open and understanding. Think about the best way you want to communicate. This doesn’t always have to be face to face and you may find other methods of communication easier. Try to prepare what you want to communicate in advance. This can help you to stay calm and avoid any heated confrontations and may help to alleviate any nerves or apprehension before conversations take place. A family solicitor will be able to advise on the best way to communicate throughout the process and will advocate on your behalf to reach the best outcome for you.
Get support
There are many different people you can rely on for support during the divorce process. Family and friends are a great support network and are well placed to listen to your concerns, issues or offer advice based on your personal circumstances. Your family law solicitor will also be a great support during this time. Experts in divorce proceedings, they will provide advice based on their experience with other cases and recommend the best way to reach an amicable resolution.
Divorce proceedings can be an extremely upsetting time, and if you require additional support, counsellors or therapists may be able to help make the process more manageable.
Family Law Solicitors City of London
Our expert team of family solicitors in City of London have years of experience helping clients reach positive resolutions during the divorce process. Speak to one of the team about your personal circumstances and how we may be able to help you.
